GRIEF SUPPORT GROUPS

Loss of Partner Grief Support Group

“Love doesn’t die. People do. So, when all that’s left of me is love, give me away.”
— Merrit Malloy

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ABOUT THIS GROUP

Losing a partner changes everything, leaving an emptiness that touches every part of life.

With their death, you lost a life you built together: routines, shared language, the future you planned, the person who knew your whole story. The grief you are carrying is real. It is heavy. And you do not have to carry it alone.

Luminary Counseling, PLLC invites you to participate in our complimentary grief support group designed specifically for adults who have experienced the death of a partner. Whether your loss was recent or some time ago, you are welcome here — exactly as you are.

Our group is grounded in J. William Worden’s Tasks of Mourning — a widely respected framework that understands grief as an active process, not a passive series of stages. Each month, we gather around one of four tasks to help facilitate healing: Accepting, Processing, Adjusting, and Connecting.

This is an open group, meaning you may join at any session. You are invited to participate as little or as much as feels right. No commitment is required.

HOW IT WORKS

Monthly sessions, online.

All sessions are held online via secure video conference — no travel required. Wherever you are in Texas, you are welcome to participate.

After registering, you'll receive everything you need to join. We send emails monthly with a reminder, handouts and a link for the meeting. Cameras are encouraged to help build trust and connection, but whether you choose to be on camera or participate via chat, your contributions are equally appreciated.

What you’ll need

• A device with a camera and microphone (computer, tablet, or smartphone)
• A stable internet connection
• A private space where you feel comfortable

Sessions meet on the second Monday of each month, 6:00 PM – 7:30 PM CDT, beginning September 2026. The group runs three full cycles each year. Sessions rotate among four topics — join any session that calls to you.

Cycle Topic Date
Fall 2026AcceptingSeptember 14, 2026
ProcessingOctober 12, 2026 †
AdjustingNovember 9, 2026
ConnectingDecember 14, 2026
Winter/Spring 2027AcceptingJanuary 11, 2027
ProcessingFebruary 8, 2027
AdjustingMarch 8, 2027
ConnectingApril 12, 2027
Summer 2027AcceptingMay 10, 2027
ProcessingJune 14, 2027
AdjustingJuly 12, 2027
ConnectingAugust 9, 2027

† October 12, 2026 falls on Columbus Day / Indigenous Peoples’ Day. Check for schedule updates.

MEET YOUR FACILITATOR

Compassionate, gentle support.

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Our facilitator maintains active supervisory consultation throughout each cycle to ensure the highest standard of care.

Ann Cleland, M.A., LPC-Associate

Under the supervision of Jennifer Buffalo, M.A., LPC-S, LMFT-S

Our Loss of Partner Support Group is facilitated by Ann Cleland, a mental health professional with specialized training in grief and loss. Ann brings a trauma-informed, person-centered approach to her work with grieving adults. She is a certified trauma professional and certified in telehealth services.

Her own experience in therapy shapes how she shows up with clients today. She brings a background in hospice bereavement counseling and a heartfelt commitment to supporting adults navigating grief.

Ann’s approach is grounded in the belief that healing begins with connection. It is her honor to hold space for those grieving the death of a partner.

Credentials: MA Clinical Mental Health Counseling, St. Edward’s University ·
LPC-Associate, Texas #101017

THE FOUR SESSIONS

Worden’s Tasks of Mourning

Grief is not something that simply happens to you — it is something you move through actively. Our four rotating sessions are each anchored in one of Worden’s Tasks, offering a framework for healing that meets you wherever you are.

Session 1

1. Accepting

Beginning the journey — from shock to acknowledgment

  • Accept the reality of the loss at a deep, emotional level
  • Name and normalize disbelief, numbness, and shock
  • Begin articulating the reality of the loss in your own words
GROUP ACTIVITY

Two Truths. Members write what tells them their partner is gone alongside the moments they still forget — holding both sides of loss without forcing resolution.

Session 2

2. Processing

Turning toward the ache — allowing grief to move through you

  • Identify how grief pain manifests — emotionally, physically, spiritually
  • Reduce shame around the intensity or variability of grief
  • Practice simple strategies for being with painful emotion
GROUP ACTIVITY

The Grief Map. Members draw a body outline and mark where grief lives in them today — adding words for physical sensations and emotional textures around the edges.

Session 3

3. Adjusting

Rebuilding identity, roles, and daily life

  • Identify external, internal, and spiritual adjustments you are navigating
  • Normalize identity disruption and role loss after partner bereavement
  • Explore how you are beginning to re-author your sense of self
GROUP ACTIVITY

The Identity Inventory. Members explore three columns: “Who I was with them,” “Who I am now,” and “Who I am becoming” — with permission for the third to be a question mark.

Session 4

4. Connecting

Carrying them forward — love that does not require letting go

  • Understand the difference between “moving on” and carrying love forward
  • Identify how your partner lives on in who you are today
  • Honor your relationship through shared memory and meaningful ritual
GROUP ACTIVITY

Sharing Memories. Members bring a photo, a comfort object, or a memory of their partner to share — honoring the love that continues even after loss.

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We know that grief has its own timeline. If you aren’t ready to join a support group quite yet, that is okay. When you feel ready, this space will be waiting. Simply being here is enough.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Still have questions?
We’re here to support.

The questions below address what makes this group unique. For general questions about how Luminary’s support groups work, see “About Support Groups” further below.

ABOUT SUPPORT GROUPS

General questions, answered.

REGISTER

Ready to join us?

Registration is simple and confidential. Once completed, we will reach out with all the details you need to attend your first session. Sessions begin September 14, 2026 — and new members are welcome at any session throughout the year.

Questions? We’re here to support.
[email protected] | (512) 657-7744

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